PowerTools for Women – Sharing

Powertools for Women in Business  10 ways to succeed in life and work - Aliza ShermanRecently, I read a great book by Aliza Sherman called “PowerTools for Women in Business – 10 Ways to Succeed in Life and Work. “  Her book outlines 10 power tools that women should use to become more successful. The first of the tools is to share your stories. We all have stories of how and why we decided to start our own businesses, what motivates us, and what keeps us up at night.

This got me thinking that other business women in my area may feel the need to share their stories like I do. I love to talk about my business and what I am doing that is new. I love to share and help friends with their businesses too. There are a lot of networking groups you can attend, chambers and leads clubs you can join, but where do you find likeminded women who want to talk about their businesses?

Not just the “This is what we do for a living, and this is how our company can help you” type of talking, but the “I started my business 12 years ago and this is why I started it, this is where I have been and this is where I think I am going. However, I am not sure I am doing it right and maybe you have the same thoughts or have done the same things and went about getting where I am going in a different way,” kind of talking and sharing.

Inspired by Aliza Sherman and her book, last night was my first attempt at putting together a group of likeminded women in our local area. I invited 19 local business women with the criteria that they had to be the owner or at least half owner of the company. They had to have an outside office or retail establishment where they paid rent and they had to have at least one employee. I didn’t want to include the women who sell at home parties or run their business as a hobby. Business women who have to worry about paying the rent, how to hire, train and retain good employees are a bit different than women who work from home. In the end, we had a small group of 7 from all types of businesses and walks of life.

The evening was very successful, each woman was able to talk about why they started their business, the excitement of owning the business and what motivates them to get up and do it again every day. I had planned on five questions for the evening, and a kind of rotation so that everyone would at least answer three of the five; however after 2-1/2 hours we only had the chance to answer the first three questions. Each woman’s “sharing” lead to more sharing and by the time it was over, to my surprise, I was asked if we could make this a bi-monthly event.One of the women, the owner of our local newspaper, said she liked this group because we were all successful women who didn’t “need” something from each other. No favors, no leads, no commitment to do anything other than to be truthful about ourselves and our businesses. I loved the evening because I realized that by listening to others, many of whom I did not know and would never have approached for advice, let alone business advice, I could find new ways to work my business, and I made some new friends. I can’t wait until our next meeting!